Dear Woman, I apologize for taking so long to complete this project, but I never put it down. Baby steps are still steps, and I will continue until I reach my goal. I want you to understand us better. How we think, why we think what we think, and how you can relate to us better, so that we can relate to you better. We really do love you, but we don't understand how to say it in a way that you hear that we do love you. "Men are from Mars, and Women are from Venus", that's an understatement, but communication and a common union is possible.
Hello Men,
I'm going to try this again. This page originally started out as an idea for a book I wanted to put together with the thoughts and writings of men to the women in their lives. At that time, I didn't get any responses, so I began writing it on my own but felt it would be more effective if it was authentic. I'm reaching out again to see in anyone (males) who would like to say something to a female in their life (mother, daughter, wife, sister, etc). Please inbox me, and you can remain anonymous if you prefer. Thanks for your support and your submission. Do you want to know what women really want? They want to hear our hearts.

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Dear Woman,

You want to know why your man does the things he does, or thinks the way he thinks? Ask him if he know who he really is. If he can tell you confidently and honestly, give him your love. If he stumbles and has to search for the words through pain and tears - GIVE HIM YOUR LOVE!

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Dear Woman, are you comfortable in your confinement? My guess would be yes, you are. You can be free when you really want to be. Stop blaming me, and let me help you. I am not your enemy.
Dear Woman, There is a difference between being delivered and having freedom. Deliverance is physical, freedom is psychological.
As En-vogue used to say back in the day, "Free your mind, and the rest will follow".
Dear Woman, I want to take a bold step of faith today and make a confession to you. I confess that I only stopped working out to strengthen our relationship, so that no one else would want me.
Dear Woman, I am so very happy to be building a future with you. Our growth has been delayed, Our happiness has been held up, Our Freedom starts today.
Dear Woman,
Thank you for all of the hard work you did over the past week, with cooking and cleaning, and preparing. You are appreciated.
Dear Woman,
There really is a method to my madness. So please stop coming behind me and changing stuff. I placed it there for a reason. Leave It Alone!
Dear Woman, 
Were sleeping in the same bed, and facing the opposite walls. 
The same way we're living on the same boat and headed in two separate directions. There is power in unity. Can we get together and conquer this thing that's trying to conquer us?
Dear Woman, Answer this... 
Do you love being a mother, more than being a wife?
Dear Woman, If what you see today, is not what I told you that God showed me, then that means it is only temporary.
Dear Woman, why pay such detailed attention to the things that are minor, but forget the bigger issue... that I need you. This is not a need of selfishness, but a God-given necessity.
Dear Woman, You bring me joy...
Hey Guys, I'm still working on the book and could use more input. Ladies, do you know a an who needs to share a story? Send me an email.
Dear Woman, God commanded me to love you, not just to sex you. Although what I feel when we are together can be nothing but God's gift, I want you to know that it's just the icing on the cake. I'm supposed to live with you according to knowledge, so teach me tonight. I'll be your student of love. Show me how you need to be loved. Because guess what?... I would never really know, until you teach, tell, and show me.
Dear Woman, I wonder if you really, truly understand the weight I feel on my shoulders. I'm not confident enough to tell you my real fears, because maybe then you won't truly see the king inside of me.
Dear Woman, I just realized something... In Genesis, after everything that God created, He said it was good, except for one thing. He created man, after His likeness and in His own image. He said that it was not good, that man should be alone. If I am honest about it, men are just little boys in grown up bodies, who need to be taught how to live and enjoy life. I need someone to help watch my back and look after me. I NEED YOU, to COMPLETE ME.
Dear Woman, In the financial world there is something called "the rule of 72". Ladies let me assure you, that if your husband is beginning to act a little funny, forgetting easy things, becoming less creative and can't seem to get it together... Check Your Calendar! If it has been more than 72 hours since you've "been a blessing to him", you need to take some advice from Teddy P. and close the door, and then turn off the lights.

Dear Woman,
Does the man you love seem to put more of his attention into his games than he does your relationship? His games have rules that don't change,... yours change every day.
Sometimes we want the prizes of leadership, but not the pressures that come with the responsibilities...
Dear Woman, ... by the way... I apologize for not taking out the trash. In my defense, the bag was not full yet, but I understand it's still important to you, so please forgive me.
Dear Woman, don't expect me to think like you and see things the way you do. I'm not wired the same as you. We were created differently for a reason.
Married sex is not only for holidays but for everyday. Don't hold out to give it up on a certain special occasion, but bless him just because it's TODAY.

Is your husband really having an affair, or is she really just a friend?
Women will give as much mouth and attitude as they have, and they'll even borrow extra if they don’t think they have enough at the time.
Just Confess ladies. You have been intensely playing the role of the league commissioner of the CFL (the Crazy Female League). You have changed the relationship rules, sometimes on a daily basis

Dear Woman,
Why the hell are you focused on a few bread crumbs on the floor, when our marriage is falling apart?